Becoming a single is never really planned! Don't get me wrong they are a few individuals who decide to either adopt, or artificially insemination because the believe their "biological clock" is ticking. The truth is, for many of us, we lose a spouse and now find ourselves in the position we are only having to start over in many different areas in our lives but also having to raise a child, or children, by ourselves. Some parents have place of their own were everyone has a room to themselves or they live with another family member where everyone has to share space. Some parents readjust their work schedules and keep their jobs while others have to completely change careers to make sure they meet their children's needs. The fact of the matter is are now hear and asking ourselves "What now?".
The truth is we can't go through this alone! As single parents it is important to a support system in place to help us emotionally, and spiritually. True friends, family, and Church need to be and important part of our support network. Also, get counsel from other single parents. Many have been through the same experiences that you have been through. Just because we are forced to be single doesn't mean we are alone.
I frequently recite Isaiah 40:31 to myself. The verse in itself is my little mantra. It when I am tired and feel like I can't go any further. The verse reads:
"But those who wait on the Lord
Shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings
like eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint."
Remember, we are not alone! God is with us! He has not abandon us! Get a support structure and pray continuously!
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